I’m not going to give you the illusion that the mass media or most dating advice ‘experts’ give you.
Straight up – finding the man of your dreams is going to happen when it is supposed to happen!
“What?” You may ask.
First of all – you have to play a role in this attraction/finding a partner in crime business. To begin with you need to be in a good space or be emotionally stable.
Secondly, understand that you should be emitting the right signals to let guys know that you are digging them.
Third of all – respect, appreciate and make peace with the fact that love may find you quickly or it may take time – lots of time.
Here are some pointers to keep you on the straight and narrow path to love.
- Dont Accept B-Grade Attraction
B-Grade attraction is a bit of attraction but not the type that gives you a feeling of euphoria. If you accept second best you are selling yourself short. Had you have waited a bit longer you would have found a guy who gives you fever.
If you accept second best I can guarantee one of the following two things will happen.
- a) it won’t last
- b) if it does you will be miserable
- Make Sure YOU Call The Shots
When you find a guy who has mutual super-charged feelings for you, you need to be the play-maker.
* Don’t have sex before being in an exclusive relationship with him. You need to state that you want to be a couple before you cross the sex line. Let him decide what he wants but never assume (no matter what the circumstance or level of attraction) that you are a couple just because you are seeing him.
- State What You Want
This could be telling him that you don’t want to be in a rubbish/casual relationship – that you actually want something real to deciding where you want to go on a date.
There is nothing more attractive than a woman who has a brain and knows what she wants. Men love the word want. Saying what you are looking for gives a man something to aspire to. They want to please you and meet your expectations. Don’t be the doormat – men will only value you as much as you value yourself. Finding love begins with you.